I’m building a small tool to help people understand relationship misunderstandings

Hi DEV 👋

I’m currently building a small side project called DecodeYou.

The idea came from personal experience.

I’ve been in a long-distance relationship, and even when both people care a lot,

misunderstandings still happen — not because of bad intentions,

but because we interpret situations differently.

For example:

the same action can feel “reasonable” to one person,

and deeply hurtful to the other.

Instead of giving advice or labeling people,

DecodeYou focuses on helping users:

• reflect before reacting
  


• notice emotional and communication patterns
  


• separate what actually happened from what we assumed it meant
  

Right now the project is very early.

I’ve open-sourced the repo to document the ideas and structure as I build.

👉 GitHub repo: https://github.com/cherryyan1987/cherryyan1987

I’d really appreciate any feedback, thoughts, or even skepticism.

Happy to learn from this community.